Recent Loss? Please Call Before Making Funeral Arrangements.

Families often feel pressured to make immediate decisions after a death. Before authorizing a transfer or signing a funeral-home agreement, contact us. We may be able to help you understand your options, identify possible assistance, and avoid costs that begin accumulating before you have had time to make an informed decision.

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For centuries, Japanese artisans have repaired broken pottery with lacquer dusted in gold — kintsugi, “golden joinery.” The break isn’t sanded away or hidden. It’s traced in gold and left in plain sight, because the repair is part of the object’s history, not a flaw in it. A mended bowl isn’t worth less than an unbroken one. Often, it’s worth more.

Immediate Help

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If your family has recently lost a veteran to suicide, please do not wait to contact us.

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For time-of-need help, media contacts, interview requests, partnerships, or general questions, send an email directly to David Barbush.

Mailing Address

Once A Soldier

143 Elm Creek Drive
St. Augustine, FL 32092

Call First. A short conversation before funeral arrangements are made may help your family understand its choices and avoid unnecessary financial pressure.
Why It Matters

Limiting the Scars of Veteran Suicide.

The financial consequences of a veteran suicide can begin almost immediately. Funeral costs, cremation expenses, biohazard cleanup, lost household income, and delayed benefits can place a grieving family under tremendous pressure.

Once A Soldier exists to help reduce those immediate financial scars whenever resources are available—and to provide information, guidance, and compassion as families begin facing the emotional scars that can last much longer.

Is a veteran currently in danger or experiencing a suicidal crisis? Once A Soldier provides postvention and family assistance, not emergency crisis response. Call 988 and press 1 to reach the Veterans Crisis Line, or call 911 when there is immediate danger.